Why do children grab toys?
1、 Family reasons
1. Children don't know how to communicate
At present, each family basically has one or two children and lacks opportunities for collective life. When I came back from kindergarten, I went back to my own home. It's not like we had a group of kids playing together when we were children.
Parents also love their children and try to be satisfied with everything. This leads to children's indisputable opinions. When they are in contact with other children, they are naturally "big brother" style.
2. The child's wishes are not fulfilled
Sometimes when a child wants to buy a toy, the parents just don't buy it. When children see that other people have this toy, it's natural for them to shine in front of their eyes.
2、 Age reasons
1. Sensitive period of property right consciousness
When they were 2-3 years old, they began to know that this thing belongs to me, which is what we usually call "children know how to protect things.".
This is the inevitable stage of children's growth. Children who have established the sense of real right can distinguish that thing is not mine, but because they are still in the self-centered stage, they will think that everything is mine.
Weak self-control, like to take what, do not consider the consequences.
2. Limited ability of expression
Children's vocabulary is not enough, what they want to say is also a reason.
How children grab toys
1. Wait and see
This kind of child is very cute. He doesn't take it openly. Secretly wait and see, see each other do not pay attention, will take away quickly.
2. Snatch by force
This kind of children will start directly. Mine is mine, yours is mine, I'll take it, I'll rob it.
What do parents do?
1. Fair treatment
Parents should not take sides with one of them. If it's not their own toys, don't rob them. If it's a common toy, whoever gets it first will play first.
It should be mentioned here that if acquaintances or relatives play with their children, some parents, because of their face, rob their children's toys or feel aggrieved. They will not help their children stand out, but let them learn to be modest.
If someone else takes away your cosmetics or new clothes, parents must protect their children when they are wronged.
It's not to let parents fight with others, but to tell their children that you have done nothing wrong. I know that you have been wronged, and he should apologize to you. Affirm the child, let him know what is right and what is wrong.
2、 Age reasons
1. Sensitive period of property right consciousness
When they were 2-3 years old, they began to know that this thing belongs to me, which is what we usually call "children know how to protect things.".
This is the inevitable stage of children's growth. Children who have established the sense of real right can distinguish that thing is not mine, but because they are still in the self-centered stage, they will think that everything is mine.
Weak self-control, like to take what, do not consider the consequences.
2. Limited ability of expression
Children's vocabulary is not enough, what they want to say is also a reason.
How children grab toys
1. Wait and see
This kind of child is very cute. He doesn't take it openly. Secretly wait and see, see each other do not pay attention, will take away quickly.
2. Snatch by force
This kind of children will start directly. Mine is mine, yours is mine, I'll take it, I'll rob it.
What do parents do?
1. Fair treatment
Parents should not take sides with one of them. If it's not their own toys, don't rob them. If it's a common toy, whoever gets it first will play first.
It should be mentioned here that if acquaintances or relatives play with their children, some parents, because of their face, rob their children's toys or feel aggrieved. They will not help their children stand out, but let them learn to be modest.
If someone else takes away your cosmetics or new clothes, parents must protect their children when they are wronged.
It's not to let parents fight with others, but to tell their children that you have done nothing wrong. I know that you have been wronged, and he should apologize to you. Affirm the child, let him know what is right and what is wrong.
2. Go out and bring your own toys
Take a toy of your own to go out. If the child likes others, it can be used as an exchange.
3. Learn to communicate
This age group of children in the language sensitive period, with the increasing number of contacts with people, language ability also get exercise.
2. Go out and bring your own toys
Take a toy of your own to go out. If the child likes others, it can be used as an exchange.
3. Learn to communicate
This age group of children in the language sensitive period, with the increasing number of contacts with people, language ability also get exercise.