On the evening of January 12, 2021, Mr. Wang and his wife took their 3-and-a-half-year-old son to the shopping mall. When they took a taxi to the downstairs of the shopping mall, they were thirsty. His wife proposed to go to the convenience store on the first floor of the shopping mall to buy a bottle of water and three masks, while Mr. Wang was holding his son at the door. The quiet child in Mr. Wang's arms suddenly became restless. He wanted to get rid of Mr. Wang's shackles. However, he put him down. As soon as he got to the ground, the child rushed to the convenience store like a runaway Mustang. Mr. Wang hurried to see that there was a yellow excavator car at the bottom of the shelf. When the child saw that the car's eyes were shining, he desperately wanted to tear the paper outside The package took out the car. His wife heard the sound and rushed to buy the car for him, but there were more than ten similar toy cars at home. Mr. Wang had a tough attitude and said he would not buy it for his son, so the child fell on the ground and began to roll, crying and shaking the world.
Unfortunately, Mr. Wang and his wife took a taxi to go home, and even the shopping plan was cancelled. When they arrived at home, the crying continued. After hearing the news, they came and asked what was the situation. After the wife gave a brief explanation, they began to spoil their grandson and blame Mr. Wang. Mr. Wang put the child in the bedroom with the door locked. He watched the child crying and rolling. He didn't even hear the blame from his wife and grandparents. When children hear their grandparents' voices, they cry and cry even louder. It lasted about half an hour. The child was obviously tired and gradually recovered. Mr. Wang took out a wet tissue from the drawer and wiped his face. He said quietly to the child, "if you want to buy toys, you can tell me. If I agree, I can buy it. If I disagree, I can't buy it. Do you understand? " The child nodded with red eyes.
Parents bring up their children. At the age of 3, children begin to have novelty in things, especially boys who deeply love toy cars. But looking at the toys at home basket by basket is really helpless. Buy it. There are enough toys at home. If you don't buy it, the child will cry and roll on the ground. If there is no good education and guidance at this time. It's easy to have psychological estrangement with children. As the children grow up, the estrangement becomes bigger and bigger, and finally it becomes an uncontrollable situation
This is especially important at the age of three to five. When the child saw that the toy wanted to be rejected, he cried and cried. The best way to deal with it is not to scold or fight. And don't say too much to the child to blame him. Just take the child to a quiet place and watch him quietly. When he loses his temper and sees that he can't solve the problem by crying, yelling and losing his temper, he will gradually calm down. At this time, parents should comfort their children and guide them to what they want, instead of crying. Guide children to communicate with their parents in a correct way.